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Choosing the Right Strap-On

Once youíve decided to make your husband or boyfriendís strap-on fantasies come true, you need to get the right equipment. You need a sturdy strap-on dildo and a reliable harness to hold it in place. Here are some buying tips to help you pick out the best tool for the job.

Choose quality and style.
Cheap flesh-colored rubber dildos with thin white elastic straps are out; high-quality, brightly colored silicone or jelly dildos with leather or PVC harnesses are in. An ugly strap-on can make you both look and feel cheap, so choose a strap-on and harness that reflect your personal style and make you feel like the queen that you are (and that your partner wants you to be). A corset-style harness is both sexy and serviceable, while a studded leather number makes you a mistress to be reckoned with.

Donít be a size queen.
At least not at first. If your fella is a backdoor beginner, you need to take things slow and start with a dildo on the smaller side. You can always upgrade to a larger dong if he starts feeling less than satisfied, but trying too much too soon is guaranteed to be uncomfortable for him. A dildo of 5 to 6 inches in length and 1 to 1.5 inches in diameter should be an adequate size for your first strap-on. Go easy on him till you get him broken in.

Soft and smooth, or rough and rugged?
Dildos that are firm but flexible, made of silicone, jelly rubber, or Cyberskin are the most comfortable. Remember that the anal area is very delicate and sensitive, so he will feel every little bump and ridge on your dildo. Beginners may prefer a smooth strap on, such as the Silk models. If your guy wants a rougher ride, go for a dildo with realistic details, or one with a more textured or veined surface.

Curved for his pleasure.
Some dildos have an upward curve or special shape designed to stimulate the prostate. While prostate stimulation can be achieved with a standard dildo, having the angle built in makes it that much easier to hit your guyís hot spot. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located just in front of the rectal wall a few inches inside the rectum. When stimulated, it can create super-charged orgasms and mega ejaculations. Dildos that are designed for female G-spot stimulation are usually curved in such a way that they can also be used to stimulate the prostate in the male when inserted anally.

Please yourself too.
While many women find fucking a partner with a strap-on arousing, specially designed strap-ons can make the experience as stimulating for you as it is for him. A vibrating strap-on can transmit vibrations to both partners, while some harnesses are designed to position a small vibrator directly over the clitoris. If you enjoy the idea of being penetrated while you penetrate your partner, try a dual strap-on dildo, or a harness fitted with plugs for the wearer.

Donít forget the lube!
While youíre shopping for toys, donít forget to pick up some water-based lube, such as KY Jelly, Probe, or Astroglide. Itís a must for any kind of anal intercourse. You may want to try a heavier lube formulated especially for anal penetration, which stays in place better and holds up to friction. If your partner is really concerned about pain or discomfort, you could try a numbing lube like Anal Eze. However, if the receptive partner is relaxed and anal penetration is performed correctly, there should be no pain or lasting discomfort.

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